ME, MYSELF and I

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Peekaboo! 🙈🙈 It's me again! 

    As you all already know, life's been so hard during the last two years but thank God, things are changing for better during this year 2025. Life's not getting beautiful, but more meaningful. 

    I'm learning how to love MY life, how to love MYSELF and guess what? It feels so fucking good! 

    I'm getting stronger, tougher, smarter, less naive and most importantly "aging like fine wine!", this just makes me realize that I'm getting more confident!!! Hell yes!! That's the missing puzzle piece I've been looking for my entire life. I've always doubted myself, my value, my worth, my achievements, my intelligence, my beauty.. All of it!! But not anymore, apparently! 

    I think that by the time I redefined "confidence", things started to change in my life. To me, confidence no longer means thinking I'm better than anyone, it just means that I'm happy with who I truly am and that I'm not afraid to show my true colors to others, not obsessing about whether they like me or not! (Who gives a fuck anyway? Not me!)

    It's wild how the more I write, the more I uncover about this "New me". Gosh, things are changing and I'm so freaking proud of who I'm becoming. 

    The old me would keep talking and "whining" about toxic people over and over and over like if they were the center of my life. *Shake my head* EWW! SUCH A PATHETIC INSECURE CRYBABY.. Or daydreaming about some imaginary dream guy like a total dork! (What a shame!)

     Now? Nah, I'm just talking about ME, MYSELF and I.. Is there anybody worthier of my time and energy than myself? (I don't think so!)

    So, I came to the realization that the change starts within. The second you start giving yourself the love you used to give unconditionally to others in hope they will love you back, life, the universe and plans will all start working on your favour! 

    I also realized that people don't love you because you're kind, smart, pretty, hot, attractive, pious, classy, generous, or whatever. They just fall for you because you are YOU and because you are loving every part of you. People are attracted by confidence. Insecurity is ugly even if you're the most beautiful person walking on earth..  

    Yea, let's pause for a little bit and think about all these people we genuinely and deeply love.. Are they the most beautiful? The smartest? The funniest? The kindest? The most successful? The best body-shaped? Definitely not.. So, this just confirms the fact that we just love people because they are themselves.. Because we love them holistically: body, soul, personality, intelligence, piety...all together.. 

    So yes, I'm happy to announce that I won’t hand over the mission of loving me to anyone ever again. From now on, this shit is my lifelong duty. 

See you next time! 

Peaceee!! ✌



    


    

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